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  • 02/02/2018 11:38 AM | Anonymous

    by Jesilee Bonofiglio LMSW, RPT 

    Happy New Year! A new year, a new month, a new day, all with new hopes and dreams! As well as new resolutions. Losing weight, exercising more, filling more buckets, or even improving your professional skills. One month in, and most people are already dropping their resolutions like the bottom line in your bank account through the holidays. Why do we do this? Why do we push ourselves into unreasonable ideas, like allowing a child into Tiffany’s and expecting them to actually not touch anything? 

    The most likely answer is that we want change. We want to believe that we can accomplish whatever we set ourselves to, whatever we dream. We forget that it requires determination, focus, and gut wrenching perseverance. Most importantly, self-forgiveness when we fail. 

    Too easily we “fall off the wagon” of resolutions. We decide it was probably not going to work out anyway. Maybe we just don’t have what it takes. Sometimes we just let go of the wagon and wave as it rolls away, choking on the dust. Did we even give ourselves a fighting chance before we became complacent? 

    If you want to make any New Year resolution plausible, give yourself permission to be human and allow yourself to make mistakes. Use them to decide how you want to improve yourself and/or the situation. Give yourself permission to grow. Share your resolution with someone you trust, who will dance with you when you succeed and hold your hand when you fall. The person who believes the best in you, no matter how many veggies you have stuck between your teeth. Want to take it up a notch? Be that person to someone else, filling your bucket and theirs. 

    So why not make every day, even every hour, the next momentum into your resolution for your life and self. Every minute is another minute you can live RIGHT NOW, that you will never get back. Don’t wait for the next big time stamp to improve yourself. You’ll be amazed at how awesome you truly are when you look back on the year, rather than resolving to make the future better.

  • 12/15/2017 12:32 PM | Anonymous

    Holiday music is on full blast. Santa has visited in the post-Thanksgiving parades. Kids are making wish lists so parents can frantically arm-wrestle each other for the most beloved gifts that will get the most screams on Christmas morning. Cookie decorating and ugly sweater competitions are ON. (Target has amazing ugly sweaters, by the way. *Shudder*) Anyone else feeling the stress of the season yet? As therapists and healers, we have a responsibility to provide a safe, calm space for our clients. A place where they can breathe, reflect, comprehend, and learn. A place to simply be…without pretense, judgment, or fear. Without pressure from any season, any obligation, or anyone. Our relationships with our clients allows this freedom, which allows the healing. It’s a beautiful circle. 

    Our ability to develop this healing relationship with our clients is quite dependent on our true acceptance of the client as a human being. A feeling, experiencing, perceiving person. We have the responsibility to accept their reality as that individual’s truth without judgment, and to accept and hold their emotional experiences. Let’s face it. All of the spectacular training and credentials in the world will not do an ounce of good for a client if they do not feel connected.

    This letter is to encourage you to find, or continue to light, that spark of your personality that draws people in. Your individual way of helping people feel comfortable, accepted, heard, and safe, regardless of their experience, emotions, actions, and *gulp* ugly sweater of the season. I truly wish for all of you 25 days of peace, fun, and therapeutic healing. And side-aching hilarious stories of scoring the very best scream gift.

    -Jesliee Bonofiglio, LMSW, RPT 

  • 10/30/2017 3:34 PM | Anonymous

    I am writing this after returning from the 2017 International Association for Play Therapy’s annual conference in Minneapolis, MN. There were over 1,000 therapists from around the world joining to learn new and fun ways to help children manage trauma and life stressors. The energy, fun, and desire to impact our world was palpable and contagious! We were able to dance and play with play therapy greats. The best part about it was that they joined us at our level, and inspired and encouraged us without judgment. That is also my hope for MIAPT. To bring together clinicians from every level of experience so all can feel empowered and encouraged. Please join MiAPT, and participate in our conferences, to help develop this great organization and your amazing work! 

    -Jesliee Bonofiglio, LMSW, RPT

  • 10/26/2017 3:39 PM | Anonymous

    Here are some ways you can volunteer with MIAPT 

    1. Newsletter content -Share a creative activity -Write a story or article -Format and distribute the newsletter -Share playful pictures for our newsletter 

    2. Networking meetings -Share ideas for meeting in your region -Find a free local venue for meetings -Consider starting a group in your area 

    3. Conferences (regional or annual) -Pick up and/or order food -Pick up craft supplies -Volunteer for clean-up and/or set-up -Design a flier -Find location for events -Request proposals of potential speakers 

    4. Membership updates (to add a directory) -Confirm member contact info -Consolidate/remove duplicate entries 

    **If interested in volunteering, email DCouture77@yahoo.com

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